I do feel at times I am focused on just getting through the day, just coping. I feel fine, but life can be still very messy even if I do feel ok. I think of that as just coping. Finding away to move past the coping stage is the hard part. Finding someway to get back to living is something I aim for.
Theres a great article over at Men’s Health on this topic. Worth a read for a few pointers