Summer’s gone

If you’re feeling like you’ve been thrown straight from beach mode into burnout, you’re not alone. That post-holiday whiplash is real—and stress is creeping in fast. Now, stress isn’t all bad. A little bit can keep you sharp. But when it starts messing with your sleep, mood, and relationships? Yeah, might be time to get…

The 1% Rule: A Gentle Path to Sustainable Growth

When it comes to improving our wellbeing, the pressure to make sweeping changes can often feel overwhelming. But what if the key to lasting transformation lies in doing just 1% better each day? This empowering article from Mind Journals introduces the “1% Rule”—a simple yet profound approach to habit-building progress through compassion and consistency. As…

Break the shame cycle

Self-hatred is a deeply painful experience that often stems from unresolved inner shame. In her insightful article for Psyche, psychotherapist Sheri Jacobson explores how this destructive cycle forms and offers compassionate strategies for breaking free. Drawing from both clinical experience and psychological research, she highlights the importance of self-awareness, acceptance, and the healing power of connection….

Discovering the Power of Doing Less

In a world obsessed with high-intensity workouts and relentless productivity, a quiet revolution is taking place—one that champions the transformative power of slowing down. The Guardian’s article, “The Zone Zero Secret: How Ultra-Low-Stress Exercise Can Change Your Life”, explores a growing movement that prioritizes gentle, restorative physical activity over punishing routines. As the article highlights, “Zone…

Blog: Fire

“Time is the fire in which we burn.”Dr Soren, Star Trek Generations. One of our biggest challenges in life is time. We assume we always have more time. That is often not the case. It’s easy to put off negative things, I can understand that. But we also delay positive things in life. We think,…

Blog: Setting the plan and smashing it

Hello everyone and happy Friday Today is my last day at work until the 11th of September. I’m having a few days of quiet rest at home and then I am flying to Gibraltar for a week. I will also be celebrating my birthday in Gibraltar this year on Thursday, which I’m very much looking…

How much deep sleep do you need?

There’s different levels of sleep. Its not just how much sleep we’ve had in terms of hours. There’s an interesting article over at Calm app’s website. The article explains that deep sleep, also known as slow-wave sleep, is a crucial stage of the sleep cycle responsible for physical restoration, memory consolidation, immune function, and emotional well-being. Adults typically…

Tips to settle a Sunday night

For those of us that work on a Monday morning, and don’t work on a weekend, Sunday nights can sometimes be a time we feel a little unsettled. The weekend is drawing to a close, and we start to anticipate the return to work the next day. This can cause stress, anxiety and other mental…

How to stop spiralling thoughts

We all get negative thoughts, sometimes they are short lived, but at other times they can fall into a spiral that is difficult to stop I read a helpful article over at Calm app’s website about what negative thoughts actually are and some practical tips to stop them. Here is a short extract from the…

Blog: Self Respect, Self Worth. In my own words

It has been a little while since I posted a blog here. I’ve actually taken a break from blog writing (which I do outside of work time) to focus my writing in other areas (creative writing). But it has been on my list to get back to. Well, sometimes life decides to deal you a…